MUD the GAP

I wonder sometimes, how many of us can stand in front of the mirror and say "I utilize every single minute of my precious Life...". If you really do then its time to justify and plan for your valuable future and if you don't then I have for you these 3 words : "MUD THE GAP".

While passing by the lane, I came across the road blocks where on the other side the laborers where busy filling up the gap dug across. This tend me to choose a longer route to reach the other side of the lane. Crossing to the other side, I looked back and this thought popped back of my mind : Though the laborers are spending hours to patch this block today, I will be able to crossover faster tomorrow. What if I patch my problems today and have a better & faster Life tomorrow ? What if the GAP is filled with MUD in early stage of Life and Enjoy this same Life later tomorrow ?

The generation today tend to waste most of their early Life by sitting idle, relaxing, wandering around, chatting more than required, partying more than desired and so on. If this is your early phase of life, then what's left in the later age/ mid age of this same life - Hard work ?... Struggle ?... Pain ?... Not willing to have these, right !!!

Don't take me wrong folks, I too belong to this same generation and I believe that this GAP which we have in our early stage of Lifestyle needs to be MUD patched now and Live Life more happily tomorrow.

I am sure by now you will be wondering in this phrase "MUD THE GAP", I have defined the GAP but not defined the MUD; which I leave it on you to choose. If you want me to give options, as of our current trend, it can be anything except which you feel is a waste of time, like learning, spreading knowledge, starting business, stock market / investment planning, a bit helping, a bit adventure, a bit family gathering, a bit enjoying with friends, a bit love & romance,... this list will go on but it is up to you how you would like to fill up your Gap to enjoy this god's gift. Also remember, do maintain balance in professional & personal* Life while doing the same.

This blog is just to make ourself realize what we already know. I am planning to mould my precious stage of Life to Live a wonderful and happy Life tomorrow and wish to see my friends picking up the same option so as to have you all the part of my Adventurous & Happy Life in future. Do give a thought over it and do reply...

Why sometimes Heart & Brain undergo contradictory thoughts ?

"The heart's more than a pump — it actually sends messages to the brain"

                      - Dr. Rollin McCraty of the Institute of HeartMath

"Recent HeartMath studies define a critical link between the heart and brain. The heart is in a constant two-way dialogue with the brain — our emotions change the signals the brain sends to the heart and the heart responds in complex ways. However, we now know that the heart sends more information to the brain than the brain sends to the heart. And the brain responds to the heart in many important ways. This research explains how the heart responds to emotional and mental reactions and why certain emotions stress the body and drain our energy. As we experience feelings like anger, frustration, anxiety and insecurity, our heart rhythm patterns become more erratic. These erratic patterns are sent to the emotional centers in the brain, which it recognizes as negative or stressful feelings. These signals create the actual feelings we experience in the heart area and the body. The erratic heart rhythms also block our ability to think clearly."

We always have our HEART play a crucial role in emotions and our BRAIN play a role in identification, planning, clarification, understanding, etc.. As mentioned above, Heart & Brain are inter-connected and agree upon each other, then why sometimes does Brain contradict what Heart narrates ? Is it that Heart has its own internal Brain ?... If yes, then why it is not capable of taking self-decisions but just contradict or requires the Brain to agree over its thoughts to move forward...

 

It has rather made so difficult sometime in Life to decide upon something - "Whether to listen to my Heart or whether to listen to my Brain". Re-phrasing it to simple words: It is difficult in some situation to balance between the two. 

This entire blog seem to have questions but it might be clear what situation I am talking about...

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What am I running for ?...

Life has been skewed to some closed responsibilities.

"What I am required to do in Life ?" is the biggest question and by the time we figure out the answer, the time is already passed out. We will never be in the state to catch back time to answer this question.

Re-phrasing again, What am I running for ?

• Am I running behind my Dream...
• Am I running away from my responsibilities...
• Am I running to become very RICH...
• Am I running to loose my past...
• Am I running to spent time with ME alone...
• OR may be all of them.

There are some category of people who want to run faster in Life to acquire/earn the most in their short duration of being alive. Imagine a runner, who wants to win the race has worked quite hard to achieve that winner's tag and gets injured in the race just because the track had a nail pierced into his feet. It is easy to understand that one nail in the run of say 400 meters will collapse his dream. Similarly, these category of people who run focused in Life must not be nailed with personal responsibilities or blamed continuously for past failures, it might shatter down their dream and the passion & adventure that they believed to enjoy will come to an end, ending up the purpose of Living. Later, they will surely be responsible but not passionate. Remember, these set of people are not the one who remain happy & satisfied with a small portion of cake tasting good rather they will gain strength to acquire the entire cake and share their love in serving its pieces.

Many times we may come across these stages of Life... I may not be in the state to identify those stages and help you here but we will have to set up time of  life for our Dream and sacrifice a portion of life to do the rest apart of what we dream... The answer for "What am I running for..." must be clear earlier the day when responsibilities start pricking BUT see that the focus does not drift from your DREAMS to your imposed RESPONSIBILITIES, which is more likely to happen.

Acquire the most in your Life... RUN Faster... Be happy... Have Fun !!!

Share your views and experience over the same if you belong to this category...

Pebbles & Pies in the journey of Desired Dream

"Kick the pebbles, taste the pies but do not step aside from the path to achieve your desired dream..."
The topic today is just a motivation that we undergo in our everyday life but do not understand the importance of our dream that we had constructed in some past days of our life. Simply take an example of our great Adolf Hitler. For Adolf Hitler, ruling Germany was just a Pie and attack by French or Soviets was just a pebble, because his focus was to achieve his desired dream of ruling the entire Earth. Similarly, for Gandhiji, independence from British was just a pebble and the statutory moments of achievement were pies. His dream was to see India a fast growing, extra-ordinary and powerful country. Take our technology person - Bill Gates, whose dream was to outperform to see WINDOWS as a platform on the desktop of each individual.

"Don't be satisfied with Pies that you taste in the journey,
 Don't regret if you fall kicking a pebble, kick it hard once again off the path,
 Because you are here to acquire your Dream before you Die..."


How many of you who undergo service/jobs in a recognized organization work for your dreams ?... This is the question that need not be answered to anyone, look in the mirror and ask yourself this question.
Most of us are satisfied with heavy incentives that we receive from the organization only because it satisfies a portion of your comfort. Does this satisfy your dream?
There is another factor "FEAR" that is just a pebble on the way. Most of us fail to undertake responsibilities because they fear for mistakes. Do you want this fear put an end to your dream?

Pen down your dream and focus to acquire it. Put down the comments what you feel to mend up our dream that we desire in this short span of our life...

Perfection must be earned, not learned...

Earn = (Learn + Experience + Mistake) &

Perfection = No Mistakes

I always wonder, how can a perfection be learned unless we undergo series of erroneous situations in the process. Take a scenario of boarding a train here, in Mumbai which is seamlessly difficult during crowded office hours. Somebody new to it will struggle through the crowd, even get pushed/punched by aggressive passengers. The same was my case 2 years past, when I started with my job & had to utilize train as a daily routine transport facility. Passing on days-months-years, I picked up tricks to securely board a train. This is what I say as earning the perfection by self experience.

A lot of individuals fear to face the consequences of mistakes done during the phase of learning. It is so very simple to understand that while undergoing experience, it is possible to earn perfection only if you know the scenarios for mistakes. Hence, it is to say that if you need to run faster in Life, take up every opportunities though it leads to very less probability of passing, further having a benefit of enjoying challenges. Later the same will help us in Life to get distinction and gain a perfect decision making skills.


See me moving on with my brother to earn to ride two wheeler vehicle. This is a bit early in Life. Wonderful experience !!!
If you have gone through such pattern of Life, share your moments where you have earned perfection.

Proper PUSH in proper TIME

It is a wonderful morning today with trees having their leaves holding still defining the morning to be not breezy. Just trying to experiment something new, I took a paper ball and suspended with a string and tied it to the ceiling in the balcony. I sat in a chair and observed the ball along with the string was still. After a short span, a small sample of wind blew and the ball started oscillating. Not a big observation !!! it is obvious... Immediately after another very short span, the wind blew again and the oscillation stopped. Again there was nothing new in this experiment. But the nature gave a message, did you imagine the same what I did ?

The message was : "Proper PUSH in a proper TIME can make an individual/object MOVE and again proper PUSH in a proper TIME can also make an individual/object STOP".

Whenever in Life, before motivating or pushing someone* for something*, please get to know the current status of the individual that whether he/she is moving (i.e. has some plans for future) or he/she is still (i.e. confused in deciding). It is only then your push can be notified as beneficial or as blockage.

(* Here someone can be your child, friend, parents, boss, assistance,... &something can be studies, work,  enjoyment or any action.)

Was this vision beneficial ?, Please share your moral or any situation where you would have faced the same...